Paul suggests 3 steps in transformation, to put off the old self, to be made new in the attitude of your mind, to put on the new self by asking Jesus to retake the throne of one’s heart and reign there. Transformation is key in partnerships. There is need to know we are equal with our partners, not presuming any superiority or conflict of function but respecting each other. We must avoid falsehood, have self-control over anger as we solve any conflict. We need to have no bitterness for oneness to thrive.